| Am | G Am | 4x [Verse 1] Am G You say that I don't listen Am G That I don't give you no respect Am G You took your love to some other place Am G Now, what did you expect? Am G We made vows inside the church Am G To forgive each other's sins Am G But there are things I have to endure Am G Like the smell of another man's skin [Chorus] Am G Am If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) G Am If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is G Am If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) G Am If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is [Verse 2] Am G You say you wanted children Am G And you would grow into a mother Am G But in my mind's eye, I would see you Am G In the arms of another Am G I am given to jealousy Am G I've been given to violence Am G But I could never raise a hand in my defence Am G So I suffer here in silence [Chorus] Am G Am If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) G Am If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is G Am If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) G Am If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is [Instrumental] | Am | G Am | 2x [Verse 3] Am G Am I pray the waters of forgiveness G Am Will rain down on you and me G Am Just like newborn babies G Am G In the cradle of a tree Am G And we will walk in righteousness Am G We will walk in rain and thunder Am G And what God has joined together here Am G Let no man put asunder [Chorus] Am G Am If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) G Am If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is G Am If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) G Am If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is G Am If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) G Am If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is G Am If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) G Am If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is